How to be happy with kids
No one tells you that you have to find time for yourself to be alone as a father.
Otherwise, you have no chance to sit down, think. And there’s a lot to think about. Not just think, catch up with your thoughts and be present.
Being present is not about doing mindfulness meditation while going to work. It’s about doing nothing and noticing it.
How can you do nothing? At work there’s always something. It’s not like a shoe maker. Makes the shoes, stops making shoes.
As a manager, you constantly have to make sure everyone is doing there job.